Life or something like it

If today was the last day of your life, how would you live it?

It has been a long eventful year, not a year I can look back on with pride, but more like a year I scraped through, only just making it and acquiring quite a number of bangs and bruises. I remember the people I met, the friends I kept, the ones I left and the ones I have hurt and I wonder.

We say we have problems in our lives, we encounter difficulties. We call them issues, problems, inconveniences, we try sometimes to make them seem trivial and unimportant but truth be told most times they leave us weary, tired, some heartbroken others cold and empty. We call it life and we try to move on.

Have you ever wondered why women abort babies, one, two, three of them and others, stayed with one man all their life, lose their first pregnancy, their second or fail to even conceive a child. Some lay the blame in all sorts of places, others call it life and we try to move on.

I totally respect all single mothers out there who have the guts to keep their child, to nurture and raise the child in spite of how society looks at them, but when one child turns to two and then three, I wonder. We look down on them alike, the women having made one mistake and then the rest making the same mistakes over and over again. We call it life and we try to move on.

We all go to church and we hear calls for the sick, the poor, the business man and woman, the barren. Hardly ever do we hear calls for the broken heart, the broken spirit. Widows and orphans do not get as much time as for the tithes, the offerings, the lavish cars and buildings we choose to endow ourselves with; all in the name of our "Lord being good". For the less fortunate we call it life and we try to move on.

How I hate the word "less privileged", shielding the fact that the people are not just some unlucky people who had life dished out to them on a cold plate. Truth is people lose jobs, circumstances beyond our control do happen and most of all, it could happen to you. Yet we call it life and we try to move on.

Famine in Asia, hurricanes in the Caribbeans, snow storms in Europe, terrorists in Pakistan, Afghanistan, showdowns in the Koreas, strife in Jos and other parts of Nigeria; we see all this, we talk about it and then we move on, telling ourselves it is part of life.

The year is coming to an end, a new one is beginning, looking back on it ask yourself this question; "Have you lived life, or something like it?"
Fought with loved ones for things that don't really matter. Argued with parents at times when you could have been wrong,
The list is endless, the possibilities countless, but for every time we put ourselves first, our wants our desires and our needs, telling ourselves each and every time that "it is life and should be lived to the fullest, no matter the costs"
Remember this; the lives lost of people that truly did not deserve death, unborn children who never get to see the light of day, people who have lost their jobs and loved ones through no fault of theirs. Think about the people on the receiving end of natural disasters, armed robberies, bombings and persecutions. We call it life but then it could happen to you.

Humble beginnings, glorious endings, a journey untold, lives yet to unfold, it could go on for ages but then it is coming as a message. 2010, a year that ran so fast but held so plenty, mistakes made, lessons learned, lives lived, touched and broken; passively or actively, I don't know. i do know this for sure, in spite of buffers carefully laid, hearts carefully protected, money carefully saved, a job seemingly untouchable. It could happen to you.

You could call it life or something like it, I see heartbreaks and aches, I see pains unsaid, I see lost lives, lost minds desperately seeking answers, and while i saw people walking on in 2010, i see people making a difference in 2011.
It is not just life or something like it, it is the lives of people and something can be done about it. Touch a heart, spread some warmth, touch a life, make a difference

For the faint, the weary, losing hope, tired of life and its never ending challenges. i have this to say

I know this for sure; although you may start out as a little seed, you will land, you will root and you will grow, no matter where it is. You will hurt for a while, you will be lonely for a while, and then you will shoot out and be your own person. Strong as you are meant to be, bold as you have to be, facing the odds with your foundation sinking far beneath the ground you see.

Happy New Year

Let it flow...

And he said: “Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Therefore, whoever takes the lowly position of this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven. And whoever welcomes one such child in my name welcomes me.

Imagine a river flowing with a really strong current, imagine a little boy on a log of wood drifting down the river, a boy that does not know any better. In all likely probabilities, combinations and permutations, the little boy would be scared, frightened, but then that little child would in all likelihood hold on tightly to that log and let the river guide him to wherever it takes him to. Add 10, 15 or even 20 years to that child, give him the same scenario and you have a young man struggling with all his might and heart to get to shore before the river kills him.

The words "Let it flow", came to me last night just before I closed my eyes to sleep. And I pondered and wondered for a while, what it truly meant and then it hit me. The whole of this year, I have striven and struggled to set my life the way I thought it should be and it has been a battle, a battle I was slowly but surely losing. And I compared my life to what it was when I was a kid and I compared it with what is happening to me now. Things I would not have sought out for, not bothered myself about a couple of years ago are the things i go out of my way to find now. I am not talking about money, food or clothing. Not talking about jobs and the like. I am talking about answers to questions, reasons behind particular situations in life. As a child, i took each day as it came, end of the day meant I looked forward to the next day, a day passed was simply that, a day passed. Now I hold on to things from days gone by, worry about things in the days yet to come, I don't trust as I used to, I don't cast my cares and worries to God like I used to.

Three scenarios come to mind today from three different times;

- Thinking about Noah in the ark, him, his family and all the saved animals. Not knowing where the ark would land they stayed in the ark and God guided it, they let everything flow...

- Step in Moses as a baby, in a reed basket coated in tar, neither him, nor his mother, nor his sister, knew where that basket was going, God did, and what did all 3 people do? They just let it flow. All the way to the basket being picked up by Pharaoh's daughter and Moses destiny starting up.

- David was anointed king as a boy but it took him a long long time before he became king. Opportunities came about where he could have snatched his destiny, but he held it in, he didn't brag about it or start a revolution, he let it flow and God worked everything out.

The way I see it, we start out like Moses in our little reed basket, trusting, not fighting, just letting God guide us. But being human which is our biggest problem (if you ask me) we think we are grown and we build a both, take d steer and start doing things as we deem fit, in other words we start doing God's work for Him rather than letting him do His work and us doing His will.

Our problems begin most times, when we stop being content with what we have or what we are, the world teaches us to strive for worldly things, and that is what we grow up believing, that is what is taught in so many places. We hardly get teachings about striving for godly things a closer relationship with our Father.
What am I trying to say? It is okay to freak out, okay to be scared, where we run into problems is when we try to break the flow, or guide the river (absurd as it may sound I have tried it before).
Truth be told, as we go with our Father's flow, we get closer to Him, really really closer. A closer walk with him daily.
A walk, where we just let it flow, let God truly guide our path.

The pain of Forgiveness

For I know my transgressions, and my sin is always before me. Against you, you only, have I sinned and done what is evil in your sight; so you are right in your verdict and justified when you judge. Psalm 51:4

I have heard spoken so many times, "I am a sinner saved by grace through faith". Spoken from the lips of Christians who by all rights have every right to believe and hold unto that. Indeed that it a beautiful thing, as beautiful as the words of John 3:16. I wonder though how many Christians take it to heart and hold it dear what it cost God and his only Son to save just one sinner from eternal damnation and bring him to the Light.
I have also heard say, that you only have to be saved once, when you repent of all your sins and after then all you have to do is ask for forgiveness from God and all will be rectified and made well again, now again I ask, when we do that, I wonder how many remember what it cost?
I have also heard this, "God loves me just as I am, I am His child, He is my Father". I still wonder again whether we do remember what it cost, to bring salvation to the world. I like to believe that also that God loves me and indeed He must or else He wouldn't send His Son down to die for us.
Now we kneel and ask for forgiveness every single day for some people and for others, when we are sick or we nearly have an accident. I wonder how many people remember the words from the Lord's Prayer that says "Forgive us as we forgive them that sin against us", I dare to ask, right before you kneel, have you forgiven? The many people that offend you daily, have you forgiven? The many you offend daily, have you forgiven them? We expect so much and we give so little and i wonder, based on the saying "whatever you sow, that you shall reap", how many of us deserve forgiveness? Especially at the cost for which it was purchased (it is not my answer to give, but God's)?
Yes He is a merciful God, but one thing I know for sure is this, my God hasn't changed, He hated sin then and I am very sure, He still does so right now. And while he was willing to do wonderful things to save Israel from captivity in Egypt, He was quite willing to kill them all because of sin.
I read a devotional from Oswald Chambers and it touched me in different ways and prompted my writing of this post.

Never build your case for forgiveness on the idea that God is our Father and He will forgive us because He loves us. That contradicts the revealed truth of God in Jesus Christ. It makes the Cross unnecessary, and the redemption “much ado about nothing.” God forgives sin only because of the death of Christ. God could forgive people in no other way than by the death of His Son, and Jesus is exalted as Savior because of His death.

We need to remember as Christians, that every single time we kneel to ask for forgiveness, every single time we kneel in repentance that we ask God to remember Calvary, to remember the death of His only Son, the only one that lived a blameless life, to remember the Pain, the Death and the Suffering and the reason for it. We ask Him to remember the Pain of Forgiveness and have mercy. God knows I myself need to remember this as well, daily, to remember the simple statement our Lord Jesus Christ made to all sinners while on earth.

Go and sin no more!!!

Beyond the Prodigal border..

I will arise and go to my father, and will say unto him, Father, I have sinned against heaven, and before thee, and am no more worthy to be called thy son: make me as one of thy hired servants. Luke 15:18-19

We all know the story of the prodigal son, at one point in time, a lot of us have seen that story acted out in lives around us, most times we have even lived out that story in our very lives.
It starts slowly, very slowly, usually prompted by a sense of injustice caused by something God didn't do for us. We fail to see most times that God doesn't fail us, he never ever does, but people do all the time, from ages past, till date and even in times yet to come. We stop doing things we used to do, and start doing things we never used to do. We think we have it under control, but slowly it slips out of our control. I will bring to mind a scripture we hold dearly to heart

I went by the field of the slothful, and by the vineyard of the man void of understanding; And, lo, it was all grown over with thorns, and nettles had covered the face thereof, and the stone wall thereof was broken down. Then I saw, and considered it well: I looked upon it, and received instruction. Yet a little sleep, a little slumber, a little folding of the hands to sleep: So shall thy poverty come as one that travelleth; and thy want as an armed man.

I like to call it a little slip, a little stumble; that is how it starts. A little drink here, a little smoke there, just a little flirting there, just change the records this once, take this little token just this once. A year later you are wondering; How did I get this far? How did it get this bad? You close your eyes to things you shouldn't and open your eyes to things you shouldn't. And the rot begins, from the inside out. At first you do things in secret, hiding so the people you know won't see you, as time goes by, you stop being bothered and live out the rot in full view for anyone to see (does that remind you of someone?)

At several points I have wondered why people don't repent, I wonder why after Lucifer was cast out from heaven, why he didn't repent. I have wondered why Adam and Eve did not ask God for forgiveness. We say and a lot of times believe, that pride goes before a fall. Yet we harbor pride within us, and when we fall, rather than remove the pride, we add stubbornness to it. holding firmly, obstinately and sometimes foolishly to our faults, scared to admit that we were ever wrong. The sad thing is that it happens, you look at lives and wonder, how did it go so wrong? I have wondered why we have rehabs for alcoholics, drug addicts and all sorts of problems but none for prodigal Christians. Yes that is what the Church is supposed to be, but with everyone declaring for religion these days rather than Christianity, I wonder how that is supposed to work (but that is for another day).

I have lived that life, took me six months; six months of not spending time in fellowship with neither God or man, six months of my life spiraling out of control. Six months where the knock on the door of my heart that meant my Father had come calling, the knock that gave warnings, that knock that brought joy started prompting dread, took me into hiding, buried me under the covers rather than taking me to my knees. In the six months, my stubbornness and pride took me past that prodigal point, all through prodigal country, to all time lows even for me. I was dead inside a walking corpse, numb to emotions, just going through the motions. My life took me right to the Prodigal border. I stood and I looked beyond and all I saw was darkness, a darkness that even in my darkened state, frightened me enough to wake me up. I looked beyond the Prodigal border and I chose Life. Like the prodigal son I said I will arise and not just go back to my Father, but I have run back to him and I refuse to look back anymore. I chose Life, which would you choose?

Wherefore let him that thinketh he standeth take heed lest he fall. 1 Cor 10:12

One thing I ask for, one thing I require, that I may dwell in the house of the Lord forever and ever. Amen.

Memoirs of a Broken Soldier...

I think of God and moan, overwhelmed with longing for His help. I keep thinking of the good old days of the past, long since ended. Then my nights were filled with joyous songs. I search my soul and meditate on the difference now. Has the Lord rejected me forever? Has he forgotten to be kind to one so undeserving? Will he never again be favorable? - King David (Extracts from Psalm 77)

Trouble came to my door, came into my house, I looked up not in fear, I am definitely not afraid, but looked up weary. My eyes say I have given up, giving up on all pertaining to Life. My morals still stand, even though they barely do, beaten down so hard and for so long that even the thought of going through the effort one more time, wears me down to my very depths.
I sleep but wake up tired, I dream, but even those are dull, edged with the numbness of one who just can't take any more. Not too long ago I would have laughed at the very thought of the very situation I find myself in, not too long ago, the very whisper of the word tired, would not have fazed me. Eager, expectant, energetic. All smiles, quick to laugh, those came freely, readily and at will. I have seen many walk down this road, seen many fall by the way, never ever would I have thought that it could happen to me.

If I had a story to tell, that is what it would be. The title? "Memoirs of a Broken Soldier". Been long, far too long that I have been away from this blog. It used to be my place to express the feeling from the depths of my heart. Now the words come and go, but the feelings stay. "The feeling that there is more to offer life, than what I am giving, the knowledge that I am more than who I am, that I am less than I actually should be. I know there is something missing, I even know what it is. I lost something along the way, and I want that back". These are the thoughts that run through my head daily. But then I take a step and I falter, I walk towards my path and suddenly a million other possibilities loom up. Rather than make a choice, rather than make the right choice, I sit back down once again and time, the ever rushing time sweeps by me once more.

What am I trying to say? So many times nowadays, we have the struggles, our struggles, beaten down, made to look like passive things that where never really a problem, we bring the problems low and lift the triumphs up high. Because really in the eyes of the world, the triumphs make us strong. But then those same trials those problems we beat down are the very same problems that pull so many out of this race we run. We would rather give testimonies of the pains and perils we go through, after we have gone through them, than share our problems right at the point we go through them, because we all believe that "having problems make us look weak". We would rather cry to God, but then we cry "Why"?, we cry "How long"? wanting answers. Rather than ask for His hand to hold and guide us through it all. We spend so much time using the sword of God's word rather than spending time sharpening it, and so what happens? It goes blunt and it falls apart, and it stops being as effective as it used to be.

Rather than focus on all that though, i will tell you a story. It starts with a man, a genesis, a beginning. Called out and chosen by God. It started with a land given to that same man by God. Move the time up by 400 years and we have a people in an exodus out of Egypt. On one side we have Joseph leading his family into the good of the land, on the other side, we have Moses leading his people into the good of another land. Oh yes we have a few chapters talking about the sufferings of God's people, but we do NOT focus on it. My story can be told by a million people around the world I am sure. Just like I am sure a million more have at one time felt tired, felt broken, felt like despite anything happening around them. I have a couple of words tonight, words to inspire, words to give hope;

Blood on the cross...
Calm in the midst of the storm...
Peace that passes all understanding...
A river of Life, from which you will never thirst again...
An ever abounding grace, which is our foundation, the very path we walk on, always, ever sufficient for you...

You have stayed tired long enough, I have stayed tired long enough. The EXODUS, begins NOW.

The trials are not to make you weary but strong...

You are not alone.

Breathe...

Truth be told, I would rather die fighting for what is right, than die fighting against the wrong in the world.

Over the last week, there was a time I felt so choked up, not choked up physically, but choked up emotionally, choked up in the spirit. So choked up the tears won't fall but rather there is a pain so deep that the only thing that would come out is simply "Why me?". Much as I would love to claim that there is a quickfix, a ready solution, there really isn't. At least not one that would work immediately. There are words that I would like to share, words that I do hope would comfort you.

Have you lost someone, something?
Ever been broken or are you hurting?
Lost a friend or a loved one maybe something precious
Tried to live right for long but lost all for briefly wrong?
Have you ever looked back on your life and wondered,
Where did all go wrong?
You cry but the tears don't come,
You are angry but even that feels so wrong,
You want to let go because you feel so numb,
But then the thought of that makes it worse.
You search for comfort, you search for hope,
But then failure to find them every single time,
Leaves you gasping, gasping for air that just won't come.
You smile, but you feel bitter,
At night, you toss and turn, sleep won't come
In the morning, you just want to go back to bed.
You never feel quite ready to face your day.

Memories all around? Of what was and what could have been that isn't. You see people all around who by right should be worse of than you and one dares to wonder at the injustice of the world. And as one wonders, one wanders and starts choking.
You need air? Stop and take a deep breath, stop seeking answers, stop asking questions and just breathe. Breathe in God's presence and let go of all that bothers you. Because truly, time spent questioning God in anger, with a sense of falsely placed injustice, is time spent away from the comfort of His hands. Just breathe. Till you get to that point, a time when what upsets you, isn't the wrong in the world, but the right that isn't.
Let go, leave it all to the One who actually knows and just breathe. Rather than find comfort in places that are not sure, comfort yourself in the Lord. Let Him take care of you.

Breathe.

Two wrongs don't make a right, but then neither does one wrong and no reaction. Only right begets right.

One thing I ask of the LORD, this is what I seek: that I may dwell in the house of the LORD all the days of my life, to gaze upon the beauty of the LORD and to seek him in his temple. Psalm 27:4

Prepare yourself...

"Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened". Matthew 7:7-8

This morning these words hit me two simple words, "Prepare yourself". And Matthew 7:7-8 came to my mind. That is one of the best passages to many people. I mean it literally says ask, seek and knock. What does that translate to? Pray without ceasing? Give without expecting? While a lot would agree, on this morning I beg to differ. Looking at the three different aspects of the passage, this is what I see.

Ask: Ask and it shall be given to you. Now the question is, how do I know what to ask for? Matthew 7:9 talks about asking for bread and receiving stone or asking for fish and receiving a snake. That surely is wickedness and I know for a fact and truth that my Father is not wicked. Now what if, what if I dare ask, we are asking for stones instead of bread? What if we ask for fishes instead of snakes? Do we expect our merciful father to grant our requests? There is a scripture that the Holy Spirit is continuously making intercessions on our behalf, and that what is asked for is what we need.

In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groans that words cannot express. And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for the saints in accordance with God's will. - Romans 8:26-27

Now what if, what if I dare ask, what we ask for is very different from what the Holy Spirit is pleading for on our behalf? Does "where two or three are gathered in my name" ring a bell? Now if you can't have that within yourself there is a big problem indeed. Prepare yourself!!

Seek: Seek and you shall find? Where do you seek? What do you seek? You can't search for an apple in a cornfield, you definitely won't find an apple tree growing on a sea bed.

"Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs. If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and then turn and tear you to pieces" - Matthew 7:6

In the same way you don't give them sacred things or precious stones, you definitely shouldn't be searching for sacred things among dogs or pigs. Apart from not being able to find any, you will most likely be torn to pieces. Once again I say Prepare yourself!!! Not just about knowing what to search for but it is also about knowing where to search for it.

Knock Given a choice, I am sure we all would want to be like Lot, wanting the choicest of all that we see. I am sure the same principle would apply to doors.

"Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it" Matthew 7:13-14

Now I am not implying that all doors should look small and the path behind them should be narrow. I am saying however that sometimes the doors we spend so much time knocking on, may not be the right doors for us. We all want the good things of life, forgetting it is the God things that matter. Forgetting the most important thing, that it is the doors to our hearts and lives that are the most important thing to Him. Opening that door always gives answers to the questions we ask and most importantly, gives us the right questions to ask.


Before we ask, before we seek, before we knock, we should open the doors to our hearts. We should "Prepare ourselves"

Here I am! I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with him, and he with me - Revelations 3:20

Who am I...? (Mistaken Identities)

I thought to myself, "Look, I have grown and increased in wisdom more than anyone who has ruled over Jerusalem before me; I have experienced much of wisdom and knowledge." Then I applied myself to the understanding of wisdom, and also of madness and folly, but I learned that this, too, is a chasing after the wind - Eccl 1:16-17

That is a question that struck me one night before I went to bed. It struck me not because of its simplicity, but because it could be a question most people do not have an answer to, but a question people have asked themselves indirectly in one way or the other. A lot of times no matter where we find ourselves, we sometimes have this feeling of dissatisfaction. We feel there is something missing, there is something more that we perhaps should have but then, that is by the way.

In life we have different roles to play, I choose to call them layers. We are born we have parents, that is a layer, people see us as our parents' kids. There are things expected of us which we do as kids, some people spend practically all their lives as kids never to grow up, till probably the parents pass on. We grow up, we have careers after spending some time in school. We live our lives and we pass on. What happens after we pass on is between us and God. Here are random thoughts from me, thoughts from my depths.

Who am I?

We are born as kids, we live our lives as we are expected to.
Most times we do, sometimes we don't. That is a layer.
We go to school, we take up careers we think we best fit to do.
We play the part, act as students, yet another layer.
Sometime within this period, questions arise;
Purpose, reasons for being, who am I, how do I live,
We search for answers, answers to live a life that is nice.
We pick a purpose, attach a reason, pick a lifestyle and we live.
But lack satisfaction because with all that, we lack an identity.
So we attach religion, hoping God we give us the answers we seek.
Most times however, we ask the wrong questions,
We ask praying earnestly for the right answer.
And when that answer don't come we ask even more questions.

I am a doctor, an engineer, a consultant, a pilot.
I am a chef, a priest, a teacher, a professor.
I heal people so they call me doctor, but who am I to myself?
I am an engineer, I build and fix things, but who am I to myself?
I have children, so many children, I raise them, feed them, wipe their tears,
I give them all they need, but who do I see when I look in a mirror?
Who do I see when I toss and turn at night?
A chef, priest, teacher, doctor. Underneath it all, who are we?
We have teachers that steal, we have thieves that teach.
Criminals make wonderful fathers, yet we have outstanding men,
Good men in the society that have no idea what it means to be a father.
There are people, touts, ragga-muffins, street urchins, who will die for you,
Just because of the loaf of bread or the good deed, done for them by you.
But you devote your life to a loved one for years and they still walk away.
Funny how we trust pilots, doctors, taxi and bus drivers,
We trust them even though that may be the only encounter we have with them,
But we find it hard to trust the people we see daily in our lives.
Funny how we go to church every Sunday and never speak to the person next to us,
But we have no qualms about hitting up the guy or girl sitting next to us in the pub/club.
We find ourselves more comfortable with strangers, than with the people we know,
Not because the people we know are wrong or bad, but because most times,
We shield that knowledge about who we are, the center and the core of our being.
We hide because we really cannot face the truth about what/who we are.


Successful people commit suicide regularly, they have money, they have wealth, they have fame, but they are unhappy. We have friends that change and we wonder why, what happened? There have also been times when we have denied who we really are, either due to circumstances or due to the environment, because we were ashamed or shy of what people would think or say (I am guilty of this). I wonder what is the point then? If you can't stand out on a rooftop and identify with yourself then really, how does one live? There are a number of people who stood out for who they were in the bible, I pick just two; Joseph and Daniel. Simple men who because they did not bend or compromise for any reason where taken far above their peers. Who you are should cut across all the areas of your life, whether you be a doctor, a lawyer, a teacher or a parent. Whether you are in church or in a pub, people should be able to say this is who this man is... And most importantly, it should tie in with the image you see of yourself when you look in a mirror... Even more important is this, it should tie in with the image God has of you.
David put it so well in the passage Psalm 27:4

One thing I ask of the LORD, this is what I seek: that I may dwell in the house of the LORD all the days of my life, to gaze upon the beauty of the LORD and to seek him in his temple.

For him even, there were times he fell... But that passage was the driving force behind him for his entire life and it was consistent in all areas. What is yours?



God is no respecter of persons. He loves us equally though.

Warning signs...

Sometimes we want to believe in a thing so much, we fail to see the warning signs before our eyes

At a point in our lives, we make that big mistake, the one so big we not only believe the ground should open up and make room for us but we also believe that we can never make the same mistake ever again. We say once bitten twice shy, most times we do get bitten again on that very same spot. Oh yes, I have been there, bitten not once, but over and over again.

Imagine you were a little child once again, imagine you were running down a path. In a hurry so focused that you fail to see the signs warning you of the danger ahead. Maybe you do see one or two, but then you are a little child, you have no fear of the unknown and yes there is that deadly mixture of excitement and curiosity that has caught so many of us when young. An excitement and curiosity that lasts just long enough for you to fall into the traps. A child learns, learns quickly by events like that, learns not to go into such situations again. That is how we learn not to play with fire, put our hands in sockets or bad electrical appliances (that is for me). As kids, we learn to generally stay well clear of the things that hurt us. That is one side of the story.

As christians, especially young ones using me as a case study, there are times we mess up, mess up so badly that we ourselves feel God should roll us in his mouth and spit us out. We have our good days and we have our exceptionally bad ones. Having God's love, having Jesus as our mediator, we get back from the bad days. But then there is a difference between a physically young child and a young christian. Where a kid would not dare to tread after a fall on the last time out, where a young child would realize his limits, a young christian who has fallen along the same lines, would come back the next day believing that with more prayers, a little more fasting, a little more of right living and he WILL overcome. And we run the same path, over and over again, not realizing that the problem is not with the prayers, not with the fasting but it is with the very path I run. Reminds me of the passage

Proverbs 14:12

There is a way that seems right to a man, but in the end it leads to death.

I would change that verse and add this to it. It leads to death every single time, regardless of the amount of prayers, the amount of fasting or the number of hands that are joined with you to rebuke all the warning signs and traps set along the way.

1 Cor 10:12-13 says

12 So, if you think you are standing firm, be careful that you don't fall! 13 No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it.

The warning signs are there for a reason not to be rebuked, not to be prayed about but to provide a way out for you. I don't know where you are at the moment, I don't know if you have had warning signs along the way, signs that rather than take heed of, you decide to pray about. Does it feel like dejavu? Then perhaps you should get off that path now.

Beware of thinking that intercession means bringing our own personal sympathies and concerns into the presence of God, and then demanding that He do whatever we ask - Oswald Chambers

Closer....

"A man of many companions may come to ruin but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother."

Have you ever known someone, who mattered more to you than anyone else, who mattered so much to you that a day spent not seeing or hearing from the person just did not feel complete. Am not talking of a husband/wife, not talking of a boyfriend/girlfriend. I am talking of a friend.
True friendships are rare, hard to find and so very difficult to forget. I use the word true because there are a lot of relationships that can be confused as friendships. When push comes to shove however, these relationships break and fall apart, under pressure, from outside and within, that person just doesn't fit the bill. With true friendship, distance makes you cherish not forget the relationship, time makes the bond stronger, conflict brings you closer together. Friend takes priority over anything or anyone else, a friend that sticks closer than a brother/sister. A friend that knows you better, a lot better than anyone else or even your friend. A lovely relationship indeed.
There was friendship like that in the bible, the relationship between Jonathan and David, a friendship so deep that Jonathan had no troubles about giving up his princely duties for David, was willing to risk his life for David. David cared so much for his friend that he took priority over the women of that time. That is something rare to find, so rare indeed that when David became king, he looked for something of his friend that he could cherish (Mephibosheth).

Now I look at that relationship and think of my relationship not with men, but with God. Oh yes I mean my relationship with God. I want to get to a place where God takes priority over anything else in my life, a place where if I do not speak or hear from Him each day, my heart would not just want to break but be literally breaking. There was a kind of relationship that Enoch had with God that made God take him straight up to heaven before he died, the kind of relationship God had with Moses that made him take up his body and bury him, David was called the man after God's own heart. Daniel did not ask God to close up the lions' mouth, ELijah had given up, God fed him and encouraged him. What more can you ask for? You are down and you have God, God himself to encourage you. Moses actually saw the back of God. These are men, men like you, men like me. Are the ladies being left out? Oh no, because the one thing I would like to ask is this, who remained at the cross by Jesus when all others had abandoned Him? Who saw him first after He was risen?

Why am I saying all this? There is a song I have been listening to for some time now, over and over again. It is a song I know, but a song that just fits at the moment. I am in a new place, a new experience and after the initial period where one flounders, oh yes I should still be in that stage, but all of a sudden a lot of things don't matter anymore, God does. Will share some of the lines and just say why they fit and make so much sense to me at the moment.

Closer - William McDowell

Into your arms
I’m drawing near again
To dwell with you
It’s my only heart’s desire
It’s my only heart’s desire

All I can do
Is fall on my knees and cry
Cleanse me with fire
And purify my heart

Draw me close
Closer than before
Closer than I’ve ever been

If you were the prodigal child, returning to your father's house, what would matter most to you? Would it just be gaining back what you lost? Or would it be gaining back what you lost and more? Or would it just be about getting into the house.
Oh yes you used to pray twice a day before, you used to give worship so sweet, it turned the stone faced man at the back to jelly, when you return, would it just be about coming to the place where you feel okay with every thing around you? The answer for me is no, I want a relationship where time apart makes me want Him more, a relationship where what matters more at all times is Him. I want a relationship where I get closer to Him between the times we meet, all the time. I want to get closer to Him daily, closer than I was before, where each time I get closer than I have ever been. A relationship where what matters most to me, isn't about getting to heaven, but about that relationship between me and Him.





Thy kingdom come Lord on earth as it is in heaven.

His Father's Child

The reason my Father loves me is that I lay down my life-only to take it up again. No one takes it from me, but I lay it down of my own accord
I and my Father are one....

There would have been many kids on that playground, he wouldn't have been any different, same looks, same dressing, all playing together. One thing would have probably made him stand out. Where others would have said they wanted to be doctors, lawyers, teachers, carpenters, fishermen; he would have said something quite different. he would have said all he wanted to be was his father's child. Who wants that? I mean we all grow up, grow up to make our decisions in life. You can't just be a child forever. Yet that was the guiding principle of the boy Jesus till his death.
At 12 years of age, not many are concerned with their father's business. The few who are will be seen as not wanting to have a childhood, a time to just play around and do nothing. But he was different. That was his primary concern.

Having grown up, being a man at the moment (although some may disagree). I look at the life of a common man (namely me). And I look back at the life of a seemingly common child, and I cannot help but wonder. For most of us, we are asked what we want to be in life and we blag. We say all manner of things and roles we would like to be, which most times we have no idea about and the funny thing is that we actually believe it. I want to be an engineer(when we don't know maths), a doctor (we absolutely hate biology), e.t.c. just because it sounds cool. Oh I wanted to be an aeronautical engineer by the way. Thought working for NASA would be cool (pity my parents translated it to aviation). Leaving the long talk aside, I just wonder, how many of us want what our parents want? Its either we are imposing our will on them or they are imposing their will on us. How many of us could have walked up to our parents and said, dad/mum, I know whatever it is you want for me, I want it too. What do you think your folks reaction would be?

We know God's will for us, for those of us that do, how many actually accept it? For those that don't how many can confidently come out and say, God I don't know what you have planned for me today, but whatever it is, I am okay with it.
Maybe Jesus was too young, but then the bible says, remember your creator in the days of your youth not after you are too old to care about anything else anymore. So what does that mean? Jesus even as a human child, all through his life, till he died, was walking scripture. What mattered to him most was not what people thought about him, he was very humble and respectful to his parents, but he was bold enough to stand for God when it mattered most, even as a little child.
I and my Father are one, the Child said, one not in flesh, but one in spirit and in mind, as the Father commanded, so He did, He walked, thought and taught as His Father wanted. He is a living testimony of what can be, He is His Father's child.
Psalm 91:1-2 says

He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. I will say [b] of the LORD, "He is my refuge and my fortress, my God, in whom I trust."

There are a lot of promises after the first two verses, but the part I love the most are the final verses.

Psalm 91:14-16

"Because he loves me," says the LORD, "I will rescue him; I will protect him, for he acknowledges my name. He will call upon me, and I will answer him; I will be with him in trouble, I will deliver him and honor him. With long life will I satisfy him and show him my salvation."

In summary, because you are your Father's child you are covered.
It starts from the days of your youth, it starts now.

I know He watches me

Yea though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil...
Thy rod and thy staff they comfort me

It was raining a year ago and it is raining tonight... That is how great stories start. There is nothing great about this, nothing spectacular or wonderful, it is just what it is, a story. It is said what makes a great story is not the storyline, but in the way it is told. It is such a wonder that even though the lessons (not stories) of the bible are told in such bland and simple terms, they have the power to hold a person, a multitude spellbound for hours on end, not because of the story or the storyteller but because of the power behind it, because of the lessons behind each and every line. That is for another day, another time, another story.

Have you missed someone, a part of your life, missed something you used to do. Have you ever missed the person you used to be, the laughter, the joy of just living. Woken up reached for someone that just isn’t there, opened the door to a room empty now, because its occupants are all gone. If you have ever picked up your phone, to dial a contact that just isn’t there anymore, felt the heartache of a lost one, a brother, sister, mother, father or child. A best friend, a sweetheart, up all night plagued by memories of times long gone only to wake up with the realisation the so cold realisation that truly and really, those times are long gone. Three years ago, you had the world at your finger tips. Today, you are just another person, a person nobody really cares about. Three years ago you had the world at your beck and call. Today many heartbreaks, heartaches and losses after, you are just a shell of the shadow of who you were. It is a hard bitter pill to swallow, ask Job if you can, ask Jacob if you will. Hardly anyone remembers that David lost the closest and dearest to him, a friend that was closer to him than a brother, no one wonders what he did with his heartache. No one asked Jacob how he felt after he lost Rebekkah. I don’t think to ask God how he feels after I break His heart each and every time I go astray. Have you ever waited for a text or message to come? Checked your phone every couple of minutes, waiting for that message to just come in? Ever been expectant for a miracle? Think of the father waiting for his prodigal son to come home, looking in the direction his son left, every single day, till his son came home. I am a father, I know where my son is, but there are times when I get a phone call and I absolutely freak out, thinking maybe something has happened that shouldn’t have. But then even this is another story.

I have heard my pastor say a number of times that if you jump off into unknown/unsure territory, God will either catch you before you fall, or teach you how to fly. Now what if you stumble? Because I am sure all the times he has mentioned it, there have been one or more people right at the bottom. Is that the end? No He is able and just to forgive your sins and cleanse you from all unrighteousness Am not just saying it because I feel like, i am saying this as a sure fact, saying this because I have seen the bottom and touched it, and God still brought me out. He is always standing at the door knocking, He is ever willing to leave the 99 locked up securely to come out and look for you, whether it is sunny, rainy or snowy. Whether you are in the middle of so much trouble that you don’t know where to turn, where to run or who to run to, He is there. I am not going to mention Joseph or Daniel, Paul, Silas or Peter, they cried out in right standing with God. I will however mention Jonah, who ran away from God, at the cost of the lives of thousands in a city. Have you ever by your action or inaction done anything that could jeopardise the lives of thousands? God heard Jonah from the belly of the fish. Surely He can hear you from the bottom of the mountain. He can send His angels to guide you so you don’t dash your feet against the stony bottom.

Have you missed someone, a part of your life, missed something you used to do. Have you ever missed the person you used to be, the laughter, the joy of just living? It’s been a while since I laughed sincerely from my heart, been a while since I sat down comfortably with someone and had a decent conversation, it has been a while since I slept at night knowing that I would wake up and just chill (aaah the joys of work). I do look back sometimes and wish that things could be different, but even then I dare not look back for long, because I have done that in the past and missed out entirely on the present. I have realised this however. I have realised that it’s not about living without a care in the world but living, knowing each and every care and burden you have is taken care of. That is living free, living without a care for where to place your head. Living knowing that even though you walk through the valley of the shadow of death, He is your comforter and your guide, that is living knowing that without a doubt the one whose eyes are on the sparrow are always, ever watching you.

Live strong....

Magnify yourself

There are usually two ways in life, the way that seems right and the right way.

I sat for hours, days and weeks thinking of what to write and how to write what would be a true expression of myself. Myself and how I have felt and been for the past couple of months. There are usually two ways in life, the way that seems right and the right way. I used those two terms, because there are paths that are not options. Not because they don't seem right but because they are not options that we would consider so they simply do not count. Now the problem is the time it takes to come to the decision on which path to take. For the last three or so months, I have stayed at the crossroads for the past three months and have literally watched my life fall apart, not because of what I did, but because of what I didn't do. In those three months, things I thought not important became important and things I held dear became rather unimportant. Indecision led to less study, less worship, less prayer, less dependence on God, more thinking, more flirting with the world and more time accepting that sitting at that point, "just chilling", was the right thing to do. In "just chilling", I began to compare what I didn't have with what others had and I began to long for it, long for them, forgetting and forsaking what I have and what I had. Sitting in church yesterday, even after I had started writing this post, I realized one thing exposed even more by a scripture shared in church by the pastor. In sitting down, in comparing myself with others, in wanting what they had that I didn't, I exposed myself. In sitting in one spot, wishing rather than moving on and doing, I set standards for myself far below God's standards for my life and I literally have watched life pass me by.

2 Cor 10:12-13 says

We do not dare to classify or compare ourselves with some who commend themselves. When they measure themselves by themselves and compare themselves with themselves, they are not wise. We, however, will not boast beyond proper limits, but will confine our boasting to the field God has assigned to us, a field that reaches even to you.

To cut the long story short, in wanting what others had, in wanting their lives and failing to live my own life, I left the field given to me to till.
In sitting in one position watching others in my field, my life became fallow and so full of weeds that if I were a farmer I would be called wretched by men and of no use to the world as a whole.

So what is it I am trying to say here, we have gifts we have talents, God given. We have lives we have purposes, designed not by us but by God, our specific areas where we are supposed to shine out as lights. I say to myself now what I haven't told myself before now. If I cannot make an impact in my immediate environment be it work, home or even in church, then I am of no use. Why? Because at he end of the day, the money, the cars, the houses, even the children do not give satisfaction, at the end of your life what would be important is not the material wealth, but the impact you have had on the lives around you.

I wrote up some things in the past couple of weeks, things that may be helpful to you when you are down, I pray they do touch someone out there.

Fire burns every time no matter how many times you put your hand in it... Once bitten twice shy, learn your lesson. Getting older or stronger is all in the head, the same things that made you fall initially, can still make you fall today.

Peace that passes all understanding
That peace don't mean trials and tribulations won't come, however it means that you will be able to sleep in storms, walk into lions' dens, be threatened by flames and Goliath's and not fear, not because they can or cannot harm you, but because you know of a truth that you are exactly where God your father wants you to be.



You can cry about heartbreak all day, but in so doing you are breaking your Father's heart. Stop standing still and moaning about the things around you, move forward and your environment will eventually change.


Looking back turns you to a pillar of salt, that in turn will mean that when storms come you will wash away. Look up to Jesus at all times, the author and finisher of our faith...

What you don't know can't hurt you, but then it can... Too much knowledge causes paranoia... Understanding on the other hand means no matter what, you do understand why things are... The peace He gives goes far beyond that, it makes you sleep through storms, walk through flames and sleep with lions. Goliath's are defeated with pebbles, a thousand men by a single man, whole armies by three hundred. Peace that passes all understanding but His, because He knows all.

I'm my search for peace it eluded me, I tried patience for peace, but it didn't bring understanding. I tried long suffering but it only brought me bitterness... I tried praising at all times, but it came from my lips and not my heart, it brought me no joy... I could say I turned to God, but it is a lie... God found me.

Finally people, another thing I learned, magnify your gifts, magnify your talents. If I can make myself look good physically on days when I feel like dirt inside, then surely I can learn to make up my interior.

And he wept...

I am thinking of two great men of old. I am thinking of Moses and David, men that did great exploits for God. One thing, just one thing turned it around. For Moses it was the simple task of speaking rather than splitting a rock, for David it was worse, taking another man's wife.
I am not talking about the deeds but what they did after. I am talking because, I wonder at this time what it would take to change God's mind when it is made up. We make mistakes everyday, for some we directly disobey God. What does it take to change the mind of God at a point where we have messed up so bad that He is dead set on correcting us in His way.
How does an intercessor for a nation get punished for something seeming so little, but so great in the eyes of God. Punished to the point where he loses the promise. How does a king who betrayed a friend commander get to survive and live on and even give birth to a son who becomes king? David wept, for seven straight days and God turned his back on him... Moses for all he had done for and with God could not get Him to change His mind.
The question I ask today is where do you draw the line? How do you know what to fight for and what to live with? How do you know when to cry and when to accept the punishment God has in store for the errors you have made? Truth is you never know, the difference between David and Moses was Nathan an intercessor.. Someone to speak to God on your behalf, someone who can bring you to that place where your tears will mean something to God.
David wept... And nothing happened..
Jesus wept and Lazarus came back from the dead.
Abraham spoke to God and Lot and his family were saved.
The same Moses who pleaded time without number on behalf of the people of Israel couldn't plead for himself.
The same Jesus who laid hands on people, healed the sick and raised the dead couldn't plead with God at the moment where He took our sins...
And He wept, just like His Father in heaven did, just as He does each time I stray.
We have an advocate with th Father, our Saviour Jesus Christ, but then that God forgives us doesn't mean we will not be punished for our sins.
Correction is costly and painful but totally worth it, it purges, it cleanses and it makes us whole again and one with God, if only we accept it.

We struggle we fight, we persevere and hold on,
Crying and angry, sad and weeping,
Searching for signs, when the sign is right before your eyes.
Looking for warnings, when the danger is all around...
Thinking you are following directions, when you are lost..
When you have been lost for so long, that you can't find yourself..
This is not the time to think, not the time to ponder...
This is not the time to fight, but the time to surrender.
He is searching, your Father is, the Shepherd is as well,
The Comforter is waiting for you at that point,
The point where you give in and surrender,
Where you give up and return to His warmth and rest.
Lift up your eyes from all that is around you..
Lift up your eyes and see the situation as it is..
You are not alone..
He has been with you all along just waiting.
Waiting to say, Welcome Home..

Help my unbelief...!!!!

And straightaway the father of the child cried out and said with tears, "Lord I believe; help thou my unbelief" Mark 9:24

Ever wonder what makes a man make such a desperate cry with tears streaming down his face? Take a boy plagued by demons right from childhood. Demons that throw a boy into fire and into waters to destroy him reqquire constant vigilance. Vigilance long and many years running. Many years later, many people seen, many priests many solutions offered most likely, none of them working. It starts to set in somewhere along the line. Slowly but surely, the agony of despair. It creeps in unawares and before you know it, it as much a part of your life as the very air you breathe.

Step out of the old testament, step into modern times, different situations, the same feelings. Tried to fight situations so many times in different ways, in a world that says if you can't beat them join them, if you don't succeed try and try again, principles which we wrongly take out of context at times and apply to areas which they were never intended for. So rather than trust in the one who has all the answers, the one who knew us before we were born (Jer 1:5), the one who ordained spiritual blessings for us long before we knew of them (Eph 1:3-6). We have a prodigal child in all of us, the part of us that wants to try out everything "we" can to help ourselves before we even entertain the thought of turning our eyes to the Lord God for help. We have what is called selective belief, leaving some things to God, and sorting out the rest ourselves. A very human tendency, because everyone at some point in time goes through i those times.
But then, Prov 3:5 says, trust the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In Mark 9:23, Jesus gives the father of the child a simple command, If only you can believe, all things are possible to him who believeth.
Faith as small as a mustard seed can move mountains, small as it is, it is complete faith so complete that out of it comes out one of the mightiest trees you will ever see. For his faith and his belief in God, Abraham was made the father of not just many nations but from him nations have been blessed and are still being blessed.

How far down the road of despair are you? All you need is believe, believe and trust God to work out your unbelief. The unbelief because you have been down this road so many times before, the unbelief that comes from so many solutions offered from which none have worked, the unbelief because rather than move forward, you have moved some steps back. All it takes is one touch from God, all it takes is that unshakeable belief from you.
The belief that even though you walk through the valley of the shadow of death that He is your shepherd (Psalm 23:4)
The belief that even if you have had the same problem for 12 years just one touch can make you whole again (Matt 9:20-22)
Most importantly, the belief that even if nothing happens, He is still God (Dan 3:17-18). hard to swallow? Indeed but true it is.
No matter how far gone you are, lift up your eyes. Your help is within your reach, my God, He neither slumbers or sleeps

Compassion...

And He said, "Father forgive them, for they know not what they do"



In Matthew 18:23-35, Jesus talks about a debtor, one that owed ten thousand talents which can be converted to millions of dollars. A man who after he had been forgiven of his debt, went around to someone who owed him just a few dollars and actually threw him in jail. To some people, that would make a lot of sense, the reminder that you are a debtor would make you go around to all your own debtors to collect. The problem is, the man forgot that he had been forgiven for something greater, a lot greater than what he refused to let go of.
Not one person, or a select few, but every single person at one point in time or everyday of their lives needs a form of compassion. If it isn't you needing it, then someone will need it from you today. So often however we forget, how we received it, forget how we were when we needed it and before we got it. We have people who feel that just because they have gone through a situation means that no one else on earth has a right to complain about it. People think in their hearts that if they could survive it, then anyone should, forgetting what they went through in that period.
I had an interesting conversation with someone no too long ago and I was asked if God would forgive mass murderers and robbers. This was because of an incident that happened where people were robbed and seperated. The ones that had were let go, the ones that didn't were killed in the worst way ever, run over intentionally by a bus. The sight was horrible, and the question valid. If those thieves repented, would God forgive them? Putting this in comparism with the people that commit genocide, that singular act would pale in comparism. 6million Jews dead beats that anyday. There have been atrocities commited over time by different people for very different reasons. In our eyes some are worse than the other but then lets live the killings, the things that shock us, lets come to the everyday things we see daily. The abuse of a child by parents; physically, verbally, sexually. Men raping women seems bad especially if you are the woman involved, but then what about the men that rape little girls? What of the men that rape little boys? We talk about genocide but then what of the genocide of unborn babies? What of abortion? The bible calls sin, sin, no matter what form it takes, and says all who truly repent will receive forgiveness. Now if God forgives you for the little you do, why shouldn't he forgive someone else who truly repents? It was His choice to forgive you why not trust Him to make the same decision for others?
God sent His Son to die for all, especially the same ones that crucified Him. The same people who He did great wonders for, healing the sick, casting out demons, you name it, He did it and they crucified Him. What did He do? He made an excuse for them. What did He say? He begged and pleaded for them. The greatest possible act of compassion shown on earth. Shown ba a Father through His Son.
We walk through life, trying not to be affected by what we see around us, it is a good thing in principle because we are "protected" from the shock of seeing what is actually going on around us. It works up till the time trouble comes knocking at your door. And come it will eventually because everyone, every single person needs compassion.
Phillipians 4:12-13 says,
12 I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. 13I can do everything through him who gives me strength.

If truly you know what it is, then go out and show it to someone. Have compassion today and touch a life, you never know when you would need it again.

Just a thought

First the egyptians were persecuting the israelites and then the Israelites broke free and began dominating and taking over the promised land, then they started fighting among themselves, the love of the world crept in and they started straying from God's original plan. Then came saducees, pharisees and the various sects not mentioned in the old testament. And then the nation called israel was destroyed and its people were scattered...

Now what do we have? After the death and resurrection of Christ, the church was persecuted but still thrived and grew, then came the times of the spanish inquisition where people where killed in the name of God, the church has split up into various segments with they all fighting among themselves, the world has crept in as well with the people that claim to call on the name of God not living a life not much different from the world. Solomon says that what has been will surely be again, there is nothing new under d sun, israel has been persecuted again and have fought and conquered for their land and are still fighting for it. Will the church learn from them? Would we in our individual lives learn from them?

If my people will humble themselves and pray and then turn from their wicked ways, God says he will hear from heaven and He will heal not the people but their land...
Just a thought...

Lost but found

I am far from perfect, but you still call me holy,
The further I stray, the wider your arms to guide me home again,
Your eyes are ever searching, searching for your lost sheep,
The sheep that signify your children, some lost, others driven,
Ever willing to guide them home again

When I say I am ready but am far from steady,
Shaken, scared and nearly broken,
When am lost, lonely and far from home,
Far from love, comfort and fellowship,
Help me know you are near.

I spent so much time searching for answers I still can’t find, looking for solutions to problems I need not have, I spent so much time looking around I failed to look to the one place I actually should. And in the looking I picked up a lot more than I could handle.
I am writing this, after a night filled with doubts or thoughts about whom and what I am, at a time when it seems like nothing makes sense anymore. When you have tried over and over again and still find yourself not just at the beginning but a few steps further from where you started from. I am writing this because of the light at the end of the tunnel that has seemed close enough to touch only for it to go so far out that it seems impossible to get to. The sharp pangs that announce the loneliness that gnaws your heart, especially when the green in your yard is painted just to make it as beautiful as the rest. Done fed up, tired of it all, a time when like Job, like Elijah, you are so fed up that you just want to lay down and die.
Just when it seems like it can’t get any worse, everything steps up a notch or two. The weariness of it all eats at you draining you totally, completely. Pride keeps you going, the stubborn pride born more out of stubbornness than any other thing, the feeling that one day you will reach out and break through to the light, the same stubborn pride that got you there in the first place. Tonight I see, I see a pattern, I see a design, I see repetitions, I see hope.

• I see sheep, with disaster looming. Are they bothered? No. Be it lack of water or food, be it danger, hunger, worries, tears or fears. One characteristic is always seen, they look to their shepherd.
  
• I see people bitten and dying in the most desolate of places, I see the Israelites asked to do one thing, look up to the snake on the staff.
  
• I see a man, frustrated beyond measure, starved and ready to die; I hear a still small voice saying lift up your eyes…
  
• I see a cross, with one man sent to die for me, to die so that I could write this message today, not by your might, or by your power, not by your plans or notions, but by grace, by grace I am saved. Not so I can accept and live the life I want to, but so I can accept and step into the fold, and there can only be one shepherd.
  

At a time when the cares of the world continuously bombard one, how much time and how often does one spend listening to the shepherd? How many people even know His voice? A voice saying:

• Behold I stand at the door and knock and if any will, he will open his door and I will come in and dine with him and he with Me… A wonderful invitation, take a moment, take a minute and hear that ever sweet sound.
  
• Come to me all you who are burdened and heavy laden, come to me and I will give you rest, He will give us and not we giving ourselves.
  

What can separate us from the love of Christ?

Romans 8:35-39
35 Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword?
36 As it is written:
"For your sake we face death all day long;
we are considered as sheep to be slaughtered."
37 No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us.
38 For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons,[m] neither the present nor the future, nor any powers,
39 neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.

A time to kneel

There is a way that seemeth right to a man, but the end is destruction

It is said that only a fool says in his heart that there is no God.
I am no fool but then the life I live begs to differ.
I perform the daily rituals, every single day.
I pray every morning but my heart is not in it.
I read my bible but it doesn't make sense,
And no, my heart is not in it.
I go to church, but I don't understand anything they say
It doesn’t touch my life in anyway.
So I try to enjoy myself as much as I can,
I do the things that don't make me feel too bad
Been doing so for a while now
I don't feel too happy and it don't make sense
At least though I understand it
It works and I can see it work.
About my empty feeling, more liquor will fill me up
I can't sleep but that pill should do the trick.
I am beset by thoughts all day long,
Tossed around by desires all night,
I feel am headed to a place I just don't know where yet.
And so I live, doing enough to go through each day
Why? Because nothing makes sense anymore
There is a time for everything,
A season for every activity
I have tried the church, I got nothing
I have tried the world and it still don't make sense,
But at least here I get to do what I want..

True talk yes, you have tried religion,
You have tried the world,
Maybe you should try God.
All the signs point to this.
There is a time for everything, a season for all activities.
The season for this stage of your life is past,
Why hold unto it?
There is a time for everything (Eccl 3:1-8)
You have tried plenty things but you have no joy.
You have tried some more but you have no peace.
Perhaps it is time you got on your knees.

But why kneel? I have been to church,
It didn't make any sense,
It is full of people who are a lot like people anywhere else.

True but there are others you fail to mention
The ones you think take it too far
It is one thing to go to church
It is another matter entirely to seek Him
Perhaps it is time to kneel
You have tried religion in the name of God,
You did not understand
You have tried the world which you did understand
You still do not have rest.
Come to me you who is burdened and heavy laden
Come and have rest.
It is me you need and not church you seek

But I pray, a prayer every morning when I can
And every other time I remember.


Yes you do, but what do you do right after?
God sees the heart, sees the intentions,
He knows those who are His,
He cannot be deceived.
Going on your knees is not just a physical act.
It is a sign of submission, true submission,
A sign of brokenness, a true sign that you are ready
A broken spirit and a contrite heart, He will not despise.
Truly it is time to kneel.
Let it all out and then let Him in.
Most importantly, leave Him in,
You have been here at this point before you know how you got here
You know here is not a place you desire to be in again.
Leave Him in, let Him guide you.
He can’t and will not lead you wrong.

Remember your creator in the days of your youth, but to remember you have to find him first..

Internal Conflicts

The guards at the walls have been posted, but rather than watch, they are looking within the walls and fail to see the enemy creeping up on the city. Creeping up to sack and destroy.

It has been a topsy turvy year, wonderful highs and wonderful lows. God has been faithful even when one has tried to be unfaithful, but then another story for another time. This came to my mind yesterday night and I just thought to share it, before it goes away entirely. Two passages came to my mind yesterday...

Amos 3:3, Can two walk together unless they be agreed? Two different people. One can put a thousand to flight, but two ten thousand. A three stranded cord is not easily broken, these are sayings which we well know but which most times I do not put into practice. Am not talking about your relationship with the 6billion or so people on earth now, am talking about your relationship with you. The parts that make up you, the spirit, body and soul. I am talking about the internal conflicts that go on each day in our hearts and lives. Our wants vs our needs, the secret desires of our lives. Paul spoke of it in Romans 7 and 8, the war between the law of sin and death and the law of God. Now the more we struggle and war within, the more we fail to see the wonderful plan God has in store for us (I am speaking from experience as most of you will probably agree).

Matthew 6:33, Seek ye first God's kingdom and what to eat, what to wear and all will be given to you.
The truth which I fail to see sometimes is that all the things that can be gotten in the flesh can be gotten in the spirit as well, after all God created all things, for His pleasure and for ours. I fail to remember that what made Lucifer sin against God, was impatience and wants, impatience and wants for things that could have been his if only he had waited for God's time. And truly it is the same principle that is being worked out against us in this time . Impatience and our wants cause the internal strifes within us and while struggling we fail to see the enemy creeping up on us, or we fail to see that we are becoming a part of the very thing we are fighting against.

Delve deeper, two words that came to me sometime ago, deeper into the word, dig deep, if u spend ur time digging and spreading your roots out on the word of God, ur tree truly will blossom. Focus on the unseen people, the foundations and roots of your life. The parts unseen will determine what is seen in your life by the world around you.

Where do you draw the line?

Have you ever caught a child with his hands in a cookey jar? Or caught a child in the act of doing wrong? Don't watch the expression on the child's face wathc the expressions on the faces of all the kids next to him/her. if you know what to look for you may be able to detect how many other kids do the same thing. In so many ways I believe that is what worries a lot of christians in the world today. Not the fact that they don't sin, but the fact that their sins have not yet been found out.
Now the question is, where do you draw the line? At what you do and at how you go about avoiding it. People sleep with bibles under their pillows, sleep with crosses around their necks, people have the name Jesus ready to spill out at the slightest opportunity, the Lord's prayer, Psalm 23 you name it, it has been used as a defense mechanism.

The idea of defending against the attacks of the evil one isn't behind the mechanisms being used, it is the power behind the mechanisms being used, the power of the name of Jesus, the power of the Holy Spirit, the power of God. If you quote the Lord's prayer 50 times for the same sin, it is very likely that long before the 50th time you will have fallen, same with Psalm 23 or any other defense mechanism you have (I have tried it). Now that power ain't gonna work if you don't believe in it. And it most definitely would not work if you don't know how to use it. The bible says that the Holy Spirit will show you a way out before the temptation becomes too much to bear, a fact and a path which can be lost if you are too busy waving a cross or chanting to listen and look. Joseph resisted Potiphar's wife on a number of occasions but he fled when he had to and I am sure he fled for a reason.

The reason why things work so differently nowadays than from the time of the early church is because we now lay stock on the mechanisms rather than the power. For those who understand and believe, it becomes a matter of trying them sequentially... If prayer don't work, lay hands, if that don't work then use some oil, if that don't work then throw some more oil till the situation works itself out... Look at the disciples after the transfiguration, they tried to cast out a demon form a child and the demon just wouldn't come out. I am sure they tried different means but none of them worked and Jesus told them the reason why, and it was a lack of prayer and fasting. Which as we know is a way of edifying yourself, depriving yourself of what the body needs so you can get closer in the spirit.

Where do you draw the line? The truth now is that we as christians have become quite lazy and are quite content with just salvation, that is enough. I mean if I can sneak into heaven based on salvation then why bother? But then it is a different thing to be saved at the last minute and it is another thing to be a lost sheep that just doesn't want to be found. I have several passages which I want to look at in turn...
2 Timothy 1:6 For this reason I remind you to fan into flame the gift of God, which is in you through the laying on of my hands(NIV). Paul was reminding Timothy about the need to keep on fire for God, not by relaxing or being complacent but by a conscious action. Makes me think of barbecues and roasted corn...

Joshua 1:8, Do not let this Book of the Law depart from your mouth; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful. Meditate on it day and night, a continous and once again an active undertaking.

Eph 6:18, And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all the saints.. Again a conscious effort of constant communication with God.

This is not so we can go to heaven, this is so we can resist all manners of temptation, both from without and from within. Why? Paul warns us through Timothy about the kinds of things that would happen to christians in the last days. The last days are not the last hours before Christ's second coming but is the period between His death and His second coming, which is as I believe right now.

2 Tim 3:1-5, 1 But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days. 2 People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, 3 without love, unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not lovers of the good, 4 treacherous, rash, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God— 5 having a form of godliness but denying its power. Have nothing to do with them.

These are qualities possessed by many christians in the church, these are the sort of things we should also watch out for. its not just about salvation or avoiding temptation, not just about getting yourself to heaven. It also about making sure that no sheep including yourself is lost from the flock and also drawing the lost ones back into the fold.

Where do you draw the line?

Time to grow?

A seed sown without the proper nutrients will die, a seed that grows before its time will grow, but may not grow properly, even yet a seed that stays in the soil long after it was supposed to grow will die... There is a time and a place for everything, God sees, He knows.

This is something I told myself last year. And to be honest since then, time and time again I have had the image of a seed being planted in my head. So i went to read up the process through which a seed is planted and the conditions needed for a seed to grow. Now the timing of the seed is very important, growth before its time could lead to a sick plant, staying in the ground for too long would lead to death, also imprtant to note are the nutrients necessary for the growth of a seed; water, air and warmth. In actuality it is the presence or lack of these nutrients that could lead to the seed growing before its time or dying after its time. The right balance however will bring forth a healthy plant.

Out of botany and into healthy christian living. Now when a seed is planted, it lies dormant (literally dying). In the same way when we give our lives to Christ, when we repent, we are like seeds being planted. The way we live our lives as christians is very dependent on what happens after we are planted. Now while we are still seed we should literally die to all that was in us, all that made us before we were saved, all that is off the world. Paul put it quite simply in his letter to the Ephesians (Eph 4:22-24), it says;
You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness.
Put of the old that is the first step, putting on the new is the step that follows immediately after. Why immediately after? Because the time spent having nothing to replace the old nature will yield into a state even more worse than your initial state (Matthew 12:45). Now the time spent putting off the old and putting on the new, will determine the length of time spent as a seed. Now it is not just enough to talk about putting off the old and putting on the new. What is the old nature? The old nature is anything that has to do with the world, your earthly nature, sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry. Also we have anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language (Col 3:5-8). Quite a list if you read through but then it is everything that has to do with our old nature. This is where the period of dormancy is for us christians, this period of putting off the old and putting on the new because some of us spend our whole lives dormant, spend our whole lives struggling to put off, and so never mature, we never grow into the people God meant for us to be.
With a seed there are three essential ingredients needed to grow, air, water and warmth. Like the seed, for healthy christian living, three essential ingredients are needed, water which is the word of God, air which is fellowship with God and man and warmth which is love. So many times we have had new christians cast out and abandoned, left to sort themselves out, so many times we have left fellowship with brethren as not important, we have left fellowship with God through our praise and worship, so many times we have left the study of the word of God. The result? We find ourselves drifting, wondering why we are not growing, we find ourselves staying dormant for far longer than we are supposed to be, leading to a time lapse between the putting off and the putting on. Leading to exposure to things we would normally be shielded from.

Water to wash us clean, daily. A constant renewal of our mind to mend and correct us when we stray.
Air to breathe and to give life, constant fellowship with God and our brethren, gives us the energy we need to go on.
Warmth for the times when we lie cold. The times we feel lonely and it seems like we cannot go on anymore.

Too much water we drown the seed, too much of the word for one that does not understand can only leave one more confused. Too much air has never been a bad thing, but just air simply will not do during cold times, having just air will not help wash us, correct us and keep us clean. Love without the word and without fellowship can easily be confused especially during the seed stage. Without the guidance gotten from fellowship and from the word, the search for warmth can easily lead one astray.

So many times seeds have been planted and forgotten and I remember the parable of the sower, there Jesus focused on the types of soil, but then in this time and age, we do have the time to properly prepare the soil before we plant the seed, to ensure that not one goes to waste. One lost seed is as important to God as the whole harvest. There is plenty joy in heaven when one soul is turned to God.
Jesus said whosoever receives one of these little ones receives me (Mark 9:36), And whosoever shall offend one of these little ones that believe in me, it is better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and he were cast into the sea (Mark 9:42)

Now back to the topic, where are you at the moment? Are you dormant at the moment, or freshly planted? If you have been dormant, for how long? As I mentioned earlier, a seed can only be dormant for so long, after a while, the seed dies, and I mean dies. I leave you to ponder the implications of that.
One last passage as food for thought;
Jude 1:5
I will therefore put you in remembrance, though ye once knew this, how that the Lord, having saved the people out of the land of Egypt, afterward destroyed them that believed not.

God has not changed, He is the same yesterday, today and forever.

The 8th Wonder of the world

Every branch in me that beareth not fruit he taketh away: and every branch that beareth fruit, he purgeth it, that it may bring forth more fruit. John 15:2(KJV)


There were initially seven wonders of the world, a category coined by the Greeks, even before Christ was born. The word initially was not wonder but thaumata meaning something to be seen. This list has changed so many times that there is no need to mention it here. I however am interested in the 8th wonder of the world, a category that can be given to anything comparable to the seven wonders. I am talking about the true Christian, the true follower of Christ, I want to believe I am talking to you.

Think of a vehicle, anyone at all, four wheels, two wheels, anyone you would love to have, be it flashy, fast or luxurious. I have always had a soft spot for Range Rovers, whatever year they were made, but the newer the better. Now no matter what car you have chosen, the one thing required for the car to perform its functions is energy; from the energy provided by the battery to the energy provided by fuel. Without energy, no vehicle performs its primary function, that of transportation.
I mention cars today because it can in a way be compared to christian living. In our lives, we get lovely engines, nice finishing, beautiful interiors, we look like we walk the walk, and we look like we can talk the talk. Worship, prayer, bible study you just name it, we have it all, but we have run dry. There is no fuel, no Spirit in us to give us life, to make us the one thing we are meant to be; a light to the world, drawing all men to God.

- Known fishermen, coarse language, poor education, changed and having no other name than the name of Jesus. Their testimony? What they were and what they now are.
- A tax collector, known as cheats, and thieves, changed and having no other name than the name of Jesus. His testimony? What he was and was no more.
- A pharisee, known persecutor of the church, changed and having no other name than the name of Jesus. His testimony? What he was and was no more.

Just some examples but then no matter what you were, what matters now is what you are, not just what you profess to be. It doesn't matter what position you hold in society, God chose you for a reason. It doesn't matter if you are a Bentley, Lexus, Mercedes or a rickshaw. What matters is your ability to carry people from where they are to where they should be. You can have all the works, the beauty and all, but without the Spirit of God in you, you simply cannot bear fruit.
Different people, different lifestyles, one testimony. Go into the world and preach the gospel to all nations. Preach Jesus, him crucified, the reason you are... Your life your testimony. His death, the reason. Make yourself something to be seen, something to be seen that all men can give glory to God, something to be seen to draw all men closer to God. Make yourself an 8th wonder of the world.

People can and most often do, spend their entire lives without having seen one wonder, however people will come in contact with you daily. What matters more? The one never seen or the one seen daily?

A call to self examination

Romans 12:1-2 Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God's mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God—this is your spiritual act of worship. Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.

It is that day again, the first day of the year. A time for some to put of the old and put on the new, a time to let things go, forgive and forget and in most cases move on. For me it is a time for self examination, a time for me to check myself properly and thoroughly. The scripture judge not comes ever so readily to mind, because it is a scripture that formed the basis of much of my life in 2009. In the past year one has made a lot of mistakes, and by mistakes I don't mean judgment mistakes in the areas of investment or jobs, I am talking about mistakes that could cost us our rightful place in the life beyond here.
Questions come flooding into my mind at this point, the reason I attend the church I do, talk and act the way I do, the reason my life is the way it is. Not just the me the world sees, but the me I see each time I look in a mirror. Do I glorify God with the life I live or is just for self? I have been back at home for little over a month now and there are a lot of times I feel like I should have spoken out but didn't. Something I know probably occurs in the daily lives of Christians all over the world. Not just at home now, but at different times over the last year... Kept silent because in my mind I keep telling myself judge not. Where does one draw the line? Between judging and what one believes and what one knows is right? The passage says do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, to the way the world sees things but be transformed by renewing your mind. A constant activity I must admit.
There are a lot of examples where this is very important but rather than dwell on them all, I will talk about the recent activity of Mr Mutallab in his attempt to bomb a plane (an activity which I don't encourage by the way), now we have Nigerian's all over the world rising up to condemn the act, even our dear militants down in the Niger Delta. Now I have no problem with Nigerians standing up to condemn the act, but then if we were standing up just to condemn the act as it was, then I have no problem with it, but then I don't see anyone thanking God that the bomb did not actually go off, but rather people are focusing on the issue of the difficulty in getting visas to travel.
Paul says to Timothy in 2 Tim 3:16 and I quote "All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness:"
All scripture Paul says can be used for any one of them... Teachings, warnings, correcting and a guide on how to live for God all found in the scriptures, wrapped up in the bible as we know it today.
and verse 17 tells us why this is so again I quote "That the man of God may be perfect, thoroughly furnished unto all good works.".

It is a new year, and it is a year I start by beginning to wonder what is important to me? What matters most to me? For me it is right standing, righteousness and holiness. What matters to you?

Happy New Year!!!